Women usually will be scared of marriage and about first night. Marriage is one of the biggest change phase of her life, till she gets marry she will be living in the world of imagination and dreams. Wedding night will be most uncomfortable and unknown about the situation for girls. Below are the 10 things women wants in bed from their partner. Make sure you follow all these to get your girl on.
She knew only her husband and she will be unknown to any other member of your family. So giver her time to get adjusted to the newly world which is completely new to her. Though she knows her husband family she never lived and being daughter-in-law is not easy tasks. Below are the few important thing that girls usually expect on her first night.
1. Give her the comfort to be open up.
Do not expect her to co-operate in sex with you the very first night. Even though you know well about each other it is very important her to give comforts so that she will feel comfort to have sex with you later.
2. Be Romantic
Women has less interest on sex when compare to men. Girls are more interested in Romantic, hence try to be romantic before you approach her for next step. Give her some gifts and some surprises when she will feel more love on you and get more respect on you. Play some instrumental music before you approach, give her red roses and some candles make her first day as only romantic than approaching to sex.
This is the first day of her life after marriage, so little tiredness, dull and thinking about her family is all there. So do not approach or force her to go physical relation on the very first day. Girls’ likes to lay down on husband chest, they feel very comfort, warm and very secure. Try to give her that freedom to lay on your chest when feel lonely.
Especially in a country like India, women will be hided from knowledge of romance and physical relationship education until they get and old aged people will expect them to have kids as soon as they married. Women can be comfortable only if you give her knowledge, they will be completely blind about it. They really do not know what is make you to feel good. They just may accept whatever happens whatever you guide, but they will really start enjoying once you give the knowledge. Show some pics, videos so that she will not think of its unusual.
5. Discuss about her likes
This is very important to be her best friend to know or discuss with your bride that what she really like in sex. Even a very open-minded girl or dare girl will not tell by her own when it comes to sex. It’s only you who can make her to express and nothing wrong in expressing with her husband. You will also feel and get to know her taste. This will make you both comfort with each other and the bonding will go for long-lasting.
6. Foreplay before Sex
Do not directly jump into sex without its foreplay. Play will make them to go for next step. if you directly approach and do on any day, you will be a bad boys in their eyes which they will really stop and lose the interest on you. Discuss with them and check what they liked and start impressing her by loving her.
When especially feel pain stop immediately and make her to feel comfort for some time. Allow her only to come back to you. This will be the most scared part for girls, they will be really worried and they feel really very painful. They may push you and may hit you when they are in pain but have some patience to console her and give all the love to make her feel very thing is fine.
8. Give Compliment
A bride with that beautiful dress and is not she looking like an angel? Give her compliment for what she has and what you feel good about her, that’s make her feel proud what she has. This will definitely make her to get comfort with you. She is your angle treat her in same way.
9. Crack jokes
On the first night after marriage bride will be in confusion, your little sense of humor will definitely make her to feel comfortable and it will make her to open up. Based on your communication with her she will show her interest on you. If she comes by her own it will make your day.
10. Be patience
“It is not really time to be selfish” this note for all the men. Yes if she is not co-operative in the initial days. You have to really patience towards her. She will be filled with shyness and comfortless. So your target should not be for one day and do not be harsh to her for these thing any time.